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TFMR baby loss specific support from people who understand what it's like to make an impossible decision, and love and grieve. Finally feel seen in a compassionate community of grieving parents just like you 💜 This grief is different. This space is for you. |
GET ALL THE RECORDED CONFERENCE TALKS 3-DAY VIRTUAL EVENT GET INSTANT ACCESS TO REPLAYS $97 USD: |
You're searching the Instagram posts, the #tfmr hashtag, doing the therapy - AND you know you need more than that.
You need more than grief quotes and a few appointments. Your love for your baby is massive and eternal - which means your grief needs real space to exist.
This conference gives you that space.
Three days with experts who specialize in TFMR grief. Parents who've been exactly where you are. Tools that actually help.
You've already survived the impossible. Let us help you survive the healing.
No massive overhaul required. Just real tools, real stories, and real understanding.
What REAL TFMR parents have to say about the conference:
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This kind of formal group setting (conference structure) made me feel really validated and supported - like this wasn't just a medical thing that happened to me but something bigger and worthy of attention, study, expertise, etc. Also, all the speakers were amazing and unique and even in the recordings were supportive. -Heidi |
I was very nervous to join a ‘live’ for the first time, but everyone was so welcoming and I felt safe. -Katie The best part was having the community gather together to share our stories. I loved hearing other perspectives and feeling less alone. -Ali |
You need support that understands TFMR grief specifically.
This isn't about learning to "move through" your emotions with generic grief advice.
This is about finding people who get it. Who understand why this loss is different. Who won't judge your impossible choice.
Three days of TFMR-specific guidance from experts and parents who've been there.
Join hundreds of other TFMR parents who get it.
We bring our babies with us. We honor them in our lives. We hold our grief gently while refusing to be ashamed of our choices.
In this community, you'll find people who understand that your love for your baby is exactly WHY this grief is this deep.
You don't have to explain yourself here. You're already understood.
We bring our babies with us. We honor them in our lives. We hold our grief gently while refusing to be ashamed of our choices.
In this community, you'll find people who understand that your love for your baby is exactly WHY this grief is this deep.
You don't have to explain yourself here. You're already understood.
(Pre-recorded, get ALL the talks, streaming lifetime access)
$97 USD
$97 USD
You're not alone if you're feeling:
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There IS a way through this hellscape
Not around it. Not over it. Through it - with people who understand.
What's possible when you're in the right space:
We built this for conference for this, for you.
Three days. 18 voices. All TFMR-specific.
Experts who specialize in pregnancy loss, parents who've walked this path, and a community that finally gets it
- You can say your baby's name without explaining yourself
- Your grief gets honored as the love it is, not something to "get over"
- You find relief in a community that won't judge your choice
- You learn what actually helps - not generic grief advice, but TFMR-specific tools
- You feel less alone for the first time since your loss
We built this for conference for this, for you.
Three days. 18 voices. All TFMR-specific.
Experts who specialize in pregnancy loss, parents who've walked this path, and a community that finally gets it
$97 USD for the entire conference recordings, stream now
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So supportive to hear speakers share their TFMR experiences and talk about practical ways of coping with trauma, emotions, relations and how to practice some of the techniques they described. -Maria |
MEET THE HOST OF
Survive & Thrive after TFMR pregnancy loss summit
Sabrina Fletcher,
The TFMR Doula
Hi, I'm Sabrina. I ended my wanted pregnancy in 2018 for my health and my baby's. I know this grief from the inside.
I host the Our TFMR Stories podcast, run TFMR grief circles, and created this conference because we deserve support that actually understands our loss.
My core belief: Your heartbreaking choice was an act of fierce love. You're a good parent. You're a good person. And your grief deserves to be seen and held.
We never asked for our love to look like this - but love spelled any other way is still love. 💜
(Pronouns: she/her)
I host the Our TFMR Stories podcast, run TFMR grief circles, and created this conference because we deserve support that actually understands our loss.
My core belief: Your heartbreaking choice was an act of fierce love. You're a good parent. You're a good person. And your grief deserves to be seen and held.
We never asked for our love to look like this - but love spelled any other way is still love. 💜
(Pronouns: she/her)
FOLLOWING TALKS/WORKSHOPS INCLUDED IN THE ALL-ACCESS PASS, STREAM THE ENTIRE CONFERENCE:
December 2nd, 2025
WELCOME CALL, pre-conference on Dec. 2nd
☆ We’ll set intentions, aspirations for the conference
☆ You’ll hear what to expect, Q&A
☆ AND you can participate in an All-Access Pass GIVEAWAY!
LIVE ON ZOOM 9AM Pacific U.S. / NOON Eastern U.S. / 5pm U.K.
☆ We’ll set intentions, aspirations for the conference
☆ You’ll hear what to expect, Q&A
☆ AND you can participate in an All-Access Pass GIVEAWAY!
LIVE ON ZOOM 9AM Pacific U.S. / NOON Eastern U.S. / 5pm U.K.
MEET THE SPEAKERS OF
Survive & Thrive after TFMR pregnancy loss summit
Grief experts and TFMR parents who understand this loss from the inside.
You'll hear sessions on:
Coping with guilt, what ifs, triggers that knock you sideways
Holding impossible emotions with care
Finding your own path through grief (no stages, no timeline)
Day 1
December 3rd, 2025
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TAKING WORK LEAVE AFTER TFMR: IT'S YOUR RIGHT! PRE-RECORDED - RELEASED THE MORNING OF 
Jacking Mancinelli & George KemeryPronouns: she/her
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PREPARE YOUR PELVIC FLOOR FOR TTC OR PREGNANCY PRE-RECORED - RELEASED THE MORNING OF 
Tenae BascheriniPronouns: she/her
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SURVIVING 'SURVIVOR'S GUILT' AFTER TFMR FOR MATERNAL HEALTH REASONS PRE-RECORDED - RELEASED THE MORNING OF 
Ja'Nai WilkesPronouns: she/her
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OPENING CEREMONY & A Way to Make Peace with the Impossible Decision LIVE ON ZOOM 7:30AM Pacific U.S. / 10:30AM Eastern U.S. / 3:30PM U.K. 
Sabrina FletcherPronouns: she/her
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PARENTING AFTER TFMR: BALANCING GRIEF AND JOY LIVE ON ZOOM 8:30AM Pacific U.S. / 11:30AM Eastern U.S. / 4:30PM U.K. 
Shira Collings
Pronouns: she/they
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WHY YOU DON'T 'GET OVER' TFMR (& HOW TO TALK TO LOVED ONES ABOUT IT) LIVE ON ZOOM 10AM Pacific/ 1PM Eastern U.S. / 6pm U.K. / 8PM S. Africa 
Bianca JohnsonPronouns: she/her
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Day 2
December 4th, 2025
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MAKING PEACE WITH YOUR BODY AFTER TFMR PRE-RECORED - RELEASED THE MORNING OF 
Ali HiebertPronouns: she/her
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WHEN YOUR OWN RAGE SCARES YOU AFTER TFMR PRE-RECORED - RELEASED THE MORNING OF 
Kate CarsonPronouns: feminine identity
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TTC AFTER TFMR: WHEN STATISTICS ARE MEANINGLESS PRE-RECORED - RELEASED THE MORNING OF 
Dr. Julie BindemanPronouns: she/her
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COPING WITH TFMR - WHAT CAN HELP AND WHAT CAN HINDER? ARC'S EXPERIENCE LIVE ON ZOOM 7:30AM Pacific U.S. / 10:30AM Eastern U.S. / 3:30PM U.K. 
Jane FisherPronouns: she/her
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THE GUILT THAT FOLLOWS TFMR (AND HOW TO BE GENTLE WITH IT) LIVE ON ZOOM 9AM Pacific/ Noon Eastern U.S. / 5pm U.K. 
Lauren ReddingPronouns: she/her
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WHAT SPIRIT BABY HAS TO SAY ABOUT SUFFERING & TFMR LIVE ON ZOOM 10AM Pacific/ 1pm Eastern U.S. / 6pm U.K. 
Debra KilbyPronouns: she/her
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SURVIVING MULTIPLE TFMRs LIVE ON ZOOM 1:30pm Pacific/ 4:30pm Eastern U.S. / 9:30pm U.K. 
Carmen GroverPronouns: she/her
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Day 3
December 5th, 2025
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WHEN LOVE LOOKS LIKE LETTING GO -A COMPASSIONATE REPRO JUSTICE LOOK AT OUR DECISIONS PRERECORED - RELEASED THE MORNING OF 
Dr. E Goldblatt HyattPronouns: they/them
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UNSPOKEN LOSS: TRANSFORMING GUILT INTO GRACE PRERECORED - RELEASED THE MORNING OF 
Jenn Hepton
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THE GRAY AREAS OF TMFR: WHEN DIAGNOSIS DOESN'T BRING CLARITY PRERECORED - RELEASED THE MORNING OF 
Dr. Loree Johnson
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CREATING RITUALS: HONORING YOUR BABY WHEN SOCIETY SAYS YOU SHOULDN'T GRIEVE LIVE ON ZOOM 7:30am Pacific U.S. / 10:30am Eastern U.S. / 3:30pm U.K. 
Jane ArmstrongPronouns: she/her
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CLOSING CEREMONY
& 'AM I STILL A MOTHER?"
ON YOUR PARENTING IDENTITY AFTER TFMR
LIVE ON ZOOM 8:30am Pacific U.S. / 11:30am Eastern U.S. / 4:30pm U.K.
CLOSING CEREMONY
& 'AM I STILL A MOTHER?"
ON YOUR PARENTING IDENTITY AFTER TFMR
LIVE ON ZOOM 8:30am Pacific U.S. / 11:30am Eastern U.S. / 4:30pm U.K.
What to expect at the Survive & Thrive after TFMR virtual conference:
📅 DATES
December 3rd - 5th, 2025
💻 FORMAT
Live sessions on Zoom + pre-recorded videos you can watch anytime
📧 HOW TO JOIN
You'll get Zoom links via email a few hours before each day's live sessions
🎥 WHAT YOU'LL GET (FREE TICKET)
- All live sessions + Q&As
- Pre-recorded expert sessions on memory-making, triggers, anger, jealousy, relationships in grief, and more
- Replays available through Dec. 7th
✨ UPGRADE TO ALL-ACCESS PASS
Lifetime access to everything + exclusive bonuses
(after registering for free, you will be taken to a page to get the all-access pass)
SOME FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS FAQS ABOUT THIS VIRTUAL CONFERENCE:
Can I Stay ANONYMOUS DURING THE CONFERENCE?
Yes, here are a few ways to stay anonymous during the conference:
1.If you want to attend the live Zoom sessions, keep your camera OFF and change your screen name to whatever you wish.
2.You don't have to use the chat during the live sessions, you can just listen in and read.
3.Your screen name will not appear on any recordings, we will only record the speakers and we will only read aloud the first name's of anyone who comments live.
4.You can also ONLY watch replays if attending live doesn't feel good for you. You can access to the replays through Dec. 7th or you can get a lifetime access login through buying the ALL-Access Pass and watch the recordings in your own time.
5.None of the other attendees will see your email, it is only used to deliver the daily reminder emails (and to receive future support emails from the TFMR Doula if you decide to stick around in the community). I NEVER sell or release your emails to anyone.
1.If you want to attend the live Zoom sessions, keep your camera OFF and change your screen name to whatever you wish.
2.You don't have to use the chat during the live sessions, you can just listen in and read.
3.Your screen name will not appear on any recordings, we will only record the speakers and we will only read aloud the first name's of anyone who comments live.
4.You can also ONLY watch replays if attending live doesn't feel good for you. You can access to the replays through Dec. 7th or you can get a lifetime access login through buying the ALL-Access Pass and watch the recordings in your own time.
5.None of the other attendees will see your email, it is only used to deliver the daily reminder emails (and to receive future support emails from the TFMR Doula if you decide to stick around in the community). I NEVER sell or release your emails to anyone.
IS EVERYTHING STREAMED LIVE? WILL THERE BE REPLAYS?
Some of the classes/workshops/talks will be LIVE on ZOOM during Dec. 3rd, 4th and 5th. Some workshops will be pre-recorded and released each morning (Americas time).
After signing up for your FREE pass, you will get an email each morning (7am Eastern time) with the Zoom links for the day and the videos available to watch for that day.
There WILL be replays available through December 7th. If you want lifetime access (so you can watch later, many times, at your own pace) grab the ALL-Access Pass here.
After signing up for your FREE pass, you will get an email each morning (7am Eastern time) with the Zoom links for the day and the videos available to watch for that day.
There WILL be replays available through December 7th. If you want lifetime access (so you can watch later, many times, at your own pace) grab the ALL-Access Pass here.
WHAT DOES FREE REGISTRATION MEAN?
All the classes and workshops are free to access during the conference and up through December 7th.
We do need your email so we can send you the Zoom links and replay pages. You can always "Unsubscribe" after, although I hope you will feel like you've finally found your people and you'll stick around 💜
We do need your email so we can send you the Zoom links and replay pages. You can always "Unsubscribe" after, although I hope you will feel like you've finally found your people and you'll stick around 💜
I'M GOING TO BE REALLY BUSY THESE DATES, HOW LONG WILL I HAVE ACCESS TO THE RECORDINGS?
That's great that you're looking for a way to fit in these important conversations into your busy life. Even if you can't make it LIVE, all the classes and workshops will have REPLAYS available to watch up through December 7th.
If you already know that you really want access, even though these exact dates will be very busy for you, you can always grab the ALL-Access Pass and watch the conference videos later.
If you already know that you really want access, even though these exact dates will be very busy for you, you can always grab the ALL-Access Pass and watch the conference videos later.
IS THIS EVENT OKAY FOR ME IF MY DIAGNOSIS WAS "GREY"/IF I'm PREGNANT AGAIN/IF MY LOSS WAS MANY YEARS AGO?
I'm so so sorry about your baby, no matter what the exact diagnosis was, how long/how recent, you are welcome to join us. Even within the conference, many of the speakers themselves ended wanted pregnancies for grey (non-fatal) reasons, for their own health, for mental health reasons. There is even a talk on being pregnant again after TFMR loss, so you are welcome no matter where you are in your fertility journey. At the end of the day we are all bereaved parents, no matter how long or why.
This is a 100% no-judgment zone, and I will personally kick out and ban anyone who dares to comments weird things during the live videos/classes. Immediately. I do this in my social media spaces (zero tolerance for unkind comments), in my Facebook group, and all small group paid programs are pre-screened and agreements are made with every meeting to leave our pre-conceived judgments at the door.
If any concerns come up during the conference, you can always reply to ANY of the emails and they will go to [email protected]
We also run a TFMR only, closed, screened Facebook group so you can check in with the kind community during the conference. If you wish to apply to this TFMR Facebook group, you can do so here.
This is a 100% no-judgment zone, and I will personally kick out and ban anyone who dares to comments weird things during the live videos/classes. Immediately. I do this in my social media spaces (zero tolerance for unkind comments), in my Facebook group, and all small group paid programs are pre-screened and agreements are made with every meeting to leave our pre-conceived judgments at the door.
If any concerns come up during the conference, you can always reply to ANY of the emails and they will go to [email protected]
We also run a TFMR only, closed, screened Facebook group so you can check in with the kind community during the conference. If you wish to apply to this TFMR Facebook group, you can do so here.
We would love to support you in your grief 💜
$97 for the entire conference workshops, on demand:
My biggest takeaway from the conference is that the grief I feel is real.
-Jo Ann
-Jo Ann