Join us from November 13th through November 15th to learn to cope with grief, honor your baby and your deep love for them and take away skills to heal the trauma that comes with the heartbreaking loss of ending a beloved pregnancy
All while finally feeling seen in a compassionate community of grieving parents just like you 💜 |
FIRST ANNUAL 3-DAY VIRTUAL EVENT NOVEMBER 13th -15th, 2024 REGISTER HERE: (Signing up here will give you access to the REPLAYS through Nov. 17th - you'll get an email with the replay link) |
You know that you want to learn about and understand your grief.
You would feel better if you had a few tools work with your emotions and the never ending layers of grief.
----> But actually diving into "sitting with your grief" is easier said than done. What does that even mean, really? It's not just about going to a therapy session or two and then you're done. Your love for your baby is massive and eternal, so it makes sense that your grief is so big, and is asking for time and space to be seen and understood (just like you).
It takes more than just looking at the #tfmr hashtag (though immensely helpful) and reading some posts on Instagram with grief quotes - but it doesn't have to be a massive overhaul of everything you hold dear (grief has already done that to you, now let's help you survive the healing).
Finding understanding, compassion and strength to move with the grief of losing a baby to a termination for medical reasons in a way that actually works for YOU:
is about learning how to feel our emotions, how to move them through our bodies, how to lean on and get support in the RIGHT community spaces for our oftentimes misunderstood heartbreaking choices
Join hundreds of other TFMR loss parents just like you who are looking to hold their grief gently and honor their babies in their lives. We bring our babies WITH us. And in this special community we learn from and with each other, caring for each other through the most difficult thing we've ever been through.
ADD YOUR EMAIL HERE TO JOIN US:
(Signing up here will give you access to the REPLAYS through Nov. 17th - you'll get an email with the replay link)
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You know there has to be a way through this hellscape and into understanding and growing around grief
The ideal situation? To feel hopeful and to fully embrace the love you have for your baby, even if others don't understand. What if you could feel:
Deeply cared for, in a loving, gentle space
Relieved to find a safe place to mourn and love your baby
Calmer and soothed by your best self-care practices
Understanding and revelations about your grief process
The warmth of a safe community that exists just for you, the bereaved TFMR parent
That's why we've come together in this virtual conference, to offer you this healing and uplifting space
Relieved to find a safe place to mourn and love your baby
Calmer and soothed by your best self-care practices
Understanding and revelations about your grief process
The warmth of a safe community that exists just for you, the bereaved TFMR parent
That's why we've come together in this virtual conference, to offer you this healing and uplifting space
REGISTER HERE:
(Signing up here will give you access to the REPLAYS through Nov. 17th - you'll get an email with the replay link)
MEET THE HOST OF
Survive & Thrive after TFMR pregnancy loss summit
Sabrina Fletcher,
The TFMR Doula
Hi there, I'm Sabrina, I am a Pregnancy Loss Doula, grief companion, and fellow compassionate parent who had to make a heartbreaking decision to end my wanted pregnancy in 2018 both for my health and for my baby's. I run TFMR Grief Circles (soon to be part of the TFMR Support Sanctuary) and am the host of Our TFMR Stories grief support podcast.
My mission is help parents who have had to terminate a wanted pregnancy for health reasons to know that making an excruciating end-of-life decision for our babies and bodies is an act of deep love as a GOOD parents and GOOD people. For our selves, our families, for our collective well-being. We never asked for our love to look like this, and yet love spelled any other way is STILL LOVE. And this love-grief deserves to be seen and held and cared for. I create communities, workshops and now this online conference JUST FOR US.
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My mission is help parents who have had to terminate a wanted pregnancy for health reasons to know that making an excruciating end-of-life decision for our babies and bodies is an act of deep love as a GOOD parents and GOOD people. For our selves, our families, for our collective well-being. We never asked for our love to look like this, and yet love spelled any other way is STILL LOVE. And this love-grief deserves to be seen and held and cared for. I create communities, workshops and now this online conference JUST FOR US.
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I'll be opening up the conference with a couple calls and sessions for us:
Day 0
November 12th, 2024
Welcome Call, pre-conference on Nov. 12th
☆ We’ll set intentions, aspirations for the conference
☆ You’ll hear what to expect, Q&A
☆ AND you can participate in an All-Access Pass GIVEAWAY!
LIVE ON ZOOM 9AM Pacific U.S. / NOON Eastern U.S. / 5pm U.K.
☆ We’ll set intentions, aspirations for the conference
☆ You’ll hear what to expect, Q&A
☆ AND you can participate in an All-Access Pass GIVEAWAY!
LIVE ON ZOOM 9AM Pacific U.S. / NOON Eastern U.S. / 5pm U.K.
Day 1
November 13th, 2024
GUIDED SOUND HEALING JOURNEY FOR MAKING PEACE WITH OUR HEARTBREAKING CHOICES
LIVE ON ZOOM 6AM Pacific U.S. / 9AM Eastern U.S. / 2pm U.K.
LIVE ON ZOOM 6AM Pacific U.S. / 9AM Eastern U.S. / 2pm U.K.
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MEET THE SPEAKERS OF
Survive & Thrive after TFMR pregnancy loss summit
Check out the amazing grief experts & fellow baby loss parents who will be sharing their knowledge and love and support at the Survive & Thrive after TFMR virtual conference
These speakers will be sharing their insights on getting through grief, coping with triggers, moving through anniversaries and holidays, holding emotions with care, healing in relationship and more after TFMR baby loss.
Day 1
November 13th, 2024
HONORING THE HEARTBREAK:
MOVING THROUGH GRIEF ANNIVERSARIES
PRE-RECORDED - RELEASED THE MORNING OF
HONORING THE HEARTBREAK:
MOVING THROUGH GRIEF ANNIVERSARIES
PRE-RECORDED - RELEASED THE MORNING OF
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Dr. Loree Johnson,
PhD, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
Pronouns: she/her
ALTERNATIVE RAINBOWS: WHEN TFMR IS YOUR LAST PREGNANCY
PRE-RECORED - RELEASED THE MORNING OF
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Ja'Nai Wilkes,
Peer Grief Support
Pronouns: she/her
HEALING THE INVISIBILITY AND STIGMA OF TFMR FOR MENTAL HEALTH
LIVE ON ZOOM 7AM Pacific U.S. / 10AM Eastern U.S. / 3pm U.K.
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Shira Collings,
Licensed Professional Counselor
Pronouns: she/they
ARC's (Antenatal Results & Choices) 35 YEARS OF SUPPORTING PARENTS THROUGH TFMR: WHAT HAVE WE LEARNT?
LIVE ON ZOOM 8AM Pacific U.S. / 11AM Eastern U.S. / 4pm U.K.
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Jane Fisher,
Director of Antenatal Results & Choices (ARC)
Pronouns: she/her
WORKING WITH FERTILITY JEALOUSY
LIVE ON ZOOM 10AM Pacific U.S. / 1pm Eastern U.S. / 6pm U.K.
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Kate Carson,
Sex, Intimacy & Relationships Babyloss Coach
Pronouns: she/her
Day 2
November 14th, 2024
HELPING YOUR GRIEVING HEART THROUGH PREGNANCY AFTER LOSS
PRE-RECORED - RELEASED THE MORNING OF
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Dr. E Goldblatt Hyatt,
Doctor of Social Work
Pronouns: they/them
YOUR LOSS MATTERS: GENTLE APPROACHES TO GRIEF AFTER TFMR
PRE-RECORED - RELEASED THE MORNING OF
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Betsy Winter,
Director of Community Support
at Return to Zero HOPE (RTZ Hope)
Pronouns: she/her
MANAGING TRIGGERS "IN THE WILD' AFTER TFMR
LIVE ON ZOOM 9AM Pacific U.S. / NOON Eastern U.S. / 5pm U.K.
Jane Armstrong,
Clinical Social Worker, Perinatal Mental Health certified
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Pronouns: she/her
BREATHING INTO HEALING AFTER YOUR TFMR -- FOR PELVIC FLOOR AND CORE
LIVE ON ZOOM 2PM Pacific U.S. / 5PM Eastern U.S. / 10PM U.K. / 9AM SYDNEY (15th)
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Tenae Bascherini,
Pelvic Floor Specialist
Pronouns: she/her
RECEIVING SUPPORT IN THE WORKPLACE THROUGH TFMR
LIVE ON ZOOM 4PM Pacific U.S. / 7PM Eastern U.S. / MIDNIGHT U.K. / 11AM SYDNEY (15th)
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Alli Baker, High School and College Educator
Jackie Mancinelli, Teacher & President and Senior Advocate of Start Healing Together
George Kemery, Teacher & V.P. and Senior Advocate of Start Healing Together
Pronouns: Alli (she/her), Jackie (she/her) George (he/him)
Day 3
November 15th, 2024
FINDING COMPASSION FOR YOURSELF AFTER TFMR
PRERECORED - RELEASED THE MORNING OF
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Lucy Livesey,
Mental Health Nurse
Mindfulness Instructor
Pronouns: she/her
WHEN FRIENDS AND FAMILY DON'T UNDERSTAND: NAVIGATING RELATIONSHIPS IN LOSS
LIVE ON ZOOM 7AM Pacific U.S. / 10AM Eastern U.S. / 3PM U.K.
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Alison Lynch
Chair, Leanbh Mo Chroi (LMC) Bereavement
Pronouns: she/her
WHAT YOUR BABY IN SPIRIT WANTS YOU TO KNOW ABOUT TERMINATION, LIFE AND LOVE
LIVE ON ZOOM 9AM Pacific U.S. / NOON Eastern U.S. / 5PM U.K.
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Debra Kilby,
Spirit Baby Medium
Pronouns: she/her
UNTANGLING TFMR TRAUMA LAYERS
LIVE ON ZOOM 11AM Pacific U.S. / 2PM Eastern U.S. / 7PM U.K. / 6AM SYDNEY (16th)
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Dr. Julie Bindeman,
Reproductive Therapist
Co-owner of Integrative Therapy of Greater Washington
Pronouns: she/her/hers/they
REBUILDING TRUST IN YOUR BODY: INTEGRATIVE WORKSHOP IN SOMATIC EMBODIMENT
LIVE ON ZOOM NOON Pacific U.S. / 3PM Eastern U.S. / 8PM U.K. / 7AM SYDNEY (16th)
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Ali Hiebert
Registered Yoga Instructor
Mind Body Coach
Pronouns: she/her
CLOSING CEREMONY
MEMORY MAKING & CONNECTING WITH OUR BABIES IN THE BEYOND
LIVE ON ZOOM 1PM Pacific U.S. / 4PM Eastern U.S. / 9PM U.K. / 8AM SYDNEY (16th)
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What to expect at the Survive & Thrive after TFMR virtual conference:
WHEN AND WHERE
We will stream all the live sessions on Zoom. A couple hours before the live sessions of the day on Nov. 13th, Nov. 14th and Nov. 15th, you will receive an email with the links to join. Each day we will also release a pre-recorded video or two that you can watch on your own time.
EXPERT SESSIONS
Your free ticket gets you access to all the sessions: on memory making, tending to your triggers, working with anger and jealousy, navigating relationships in grief and more. Replays will be available through November 17th, 2024 with the free ticket pass.
UPGRADE FOR EXTRA SUPPORT
Upgrading your free ticket to an All Access Pass gets you lifetime access to all recorded sessions PLUS bonuses 💜
SOME FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS FAQS ABOUT THIS VIRTUAL CONFERENCE:
Can I Stay ANONYMOUS DURING THE CONFERENCE?
Yes, here are a few ways to stay anonymous during the conference:
1.If you want to attend the live Zoom sessions, keep your camera OFF and change your screen name to whatever you wish.
2.You don't have to use the chat during the live sessions, you can just listen in and read.
3.Your screen name will not appear on any recordings, we will only record the speakers and we will only read aloud the first name's of anyone who comments live.
4.You can also ONLY watch replays if attending live doesn't feel good for you. You can access to the replays through Nov. 17th or you can get a lifetime access login through buying the ALL-Access Pass and watch the recordings in your own time.
4.None of the other attendees will see your email, it is only used to deliver the daily reminder emails (and to receive future support emails from the TFMR Doula if you decide to stick around in the community). I NEVER sell or release your emails to anyone.
1.If you want to attend the live Zoom sessions, keep your camera OFF and change your screen name to whatever you wish.
2.You don't have to use the chat during the live sessions, you can just listen in and read.
3.Your screen name will not appear on any recordings, we will only record the speakers and we will only read aloud the first name's of anyone who comments live.
4.You can also ONLY watch replays if attending live doesn't feel good for you. You can access to the replays through Nov. 17th or you can get a lifetime access login through buying the ALL-Access Pass and watch the recordings in your own time.
4.None of the other attendees will see your email, it is only used to deliver the daily reminder emails (and to receive future support emails from the TFMR Doula if you decide to stick around in the community). I NEVER sell or release your emails to anyone.
IS EVERYTHING STREAMED LIVE? WILL THERE BE REPLAYS?
Most of the classes/workshops/talks will be LIVE on ZOOM during November 13th through November 15th. Some workshops will be pre-recorded and released each morning (Americas time).
After signing up for your FREE pass, you will get an email each morning (7am Eastern time) with the Zoom links for the day and the videos available to watch for that day.
There WILL be replays available through November 17th. If you want lifetime access (so you can watch later, many times, at your own pace) grab the ALL-Access Pass here.
After signing up for your FREE pass, you will get an email each morning (7am Eastern time) with the Zoom links for the day and the videos available to watch for that day.
There WILL be replays available through November 17th. If you want lifetime access (so you can watch later, many times, at your own pace) grab the ALL-Access Pass here.
WHAT DOES FREE REGISTRATION MEAN?
All the classes and workshops are free to access during the conference and up through November 17th.
We do need your email so we can send you the Zoom links and replay pages. You can always "Unsubscribe" after, although I hope you will feel like you've finally found your people and you'll stick around 💜
We do need your email so we can send you the Zoom links and replay pages. You can always "Unsubscribe" after, although I hope you will feel like you've finally found your people and you'll stick around 💜
I'M GOING TO BE REALLY BUSY THESE DATES, HOW LONG WILL I HAVE ACCESS TO THE RECORDINGS?
That's great that you're looking for a way to fit in these important conversations into your busy life. Even if you can't make it LIVE, all the classes and workshops will have REPLAYS available to watch up through November 17th.
If you already know that you really want access, even though these exact dates will be very busy for you, you can always grab the ALL-Access Pass and watch the conference videos later.
If you already know that you really want access, even though these exact dates will be very busy for you, you can always grab the ALL-Access Pass and watch the conference videos later.
IS THIS EVENT OKAY FOR ME IF MY DIAGNOSIS WAS "GREY"/IF I'm PREGNANT AGAIN/IF MY LOSS WAS MANY YEARS AGO?
I'm so so sorry about your baby, no matter what the exact diagnosis was, how long/how recent, you are welcome to join us. Even within the conference, many of the speakers themselves ended wanted pregnancies for grey (non-fatal) reasons, for their own health, for mental health reasons. There is even a talk on being pregnant again after TFMR loss, so you are welcome no matter where you are in your fertility journey. At the end of the day we are all bereaved parents, no matter how long or why.
This is a 100% no-judgment zone, and I will personally kick out and ban anyone who dares to comments weird things during the live videos/classes. Immediately. I do this in my social media spaces (zero tolerance for unkind comments), in my Facebook group, and all small group paid programs are pre-screened and agreements are made with every meeting to leave our pre-conceived judgments at the door.
If any concerns come up during the conference, you can always reply to ANY of the emails and they will go to [email protected]
We also run a TFMR only, closed, screened Facebook group so you can check in with the kind community during the conference. If you wish to apply to this TFMR Facebook group, you can do so here.
This is a 100% no-judgment zone, and I will personally kick out and ban anyone who dares to comments weird things during the live videos/classes. Immediately. I do this in my social media spaces (zero tolerance for unkind comments), in my Facebook group, and all small group paid programs are pre-screened and agreements are made with every meeting to leave our pre-conceived judgments at the door.
If any concerns come up during the conference, you can always reply to ANY of the emails and they will go to [email protected]
We also run a TFMR only, closed, screened Facebook group so you can check in with the kind community during the conference. If you wish to apply to this TFMR Facebook group, you can do so here.
We would love to have you join us 💜
REGISTER FOR FREE HERE:
(Signing up here will give you access to the REPLAYS through Nov. 17th - you'll get an email with the replay link)