- What: Safe space for the healing & the connections with your baby you crave as a TFMR parent
- Cost: $45/month, cancel anytime
- Support: Two expert facilitators who have walked the path through TFMR and know what actually helps
- Where: OFF social media, password protected space, groups live on encrypted video
The only pregnancy loss support
membership created SPECIFICALLY FOR
parents like you who had to make the hardest choice
You've searched everywhere for grief support that truly gets TFMR (TFMR = termination for medical reasons)
You've joined baby loss groups where people don't understand your experience...or worse, judge your choice.
You deserve support without having to defend your loving decision.
That's exactly why we created this space - just for parents like you
A place where ALLLL the grief resources are specific to the
unique tough feelings of terminating a wanted pregnancy
unique tough feelings of terminating a wanted pregnancy
“People going through loss don’t need easy answers; they need safe places to help them navigate everything they are going through."
-Jennifer Dukes Lee
The TFMR Support Sanctuary is finally a place where you can:
- Bring all your feelings safely
- Talk with people who truly understand
- Get real TFMR-specific support
- Heal without judgment
A place where you don’t have to explain yourself and your loving, heartbreaking choice...
Inside the TFMR Support Sanctuary:
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Monthly LIVE sessions with both experts |
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Your PRIVATE Community Forum (our custom-built, password protected space) |
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Self-paced TFMR grief courses |
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100% virtual with a personal login (watch/download from any device)
TFMR and any baby loss is so lonely and isolating.
What you need is HOPE that you can come out on the other side.
What you need is HOPE that you can come out on the other side.
Yes! I want in:
$45/month
Grieving in a society that doesn't understand:
Society tells you to "just move on" from grief.
We know that's B.S.
The "push-it-down" and "move on" approach did NOT work for me.
You're here, looking for another way:
A heart-based, human way.
Here's your permission to grieve however you need to.
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For me, this looked like grieving my way.
Healing through nature, art, ritual, and in community.
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"She was no longer wrestling with the grief, but could sit down with it as a lasting companion and make it a sharer in her thoughts.”
- George Eliot
- George Eliot
I've been where you are, and I know how hard it is:
Waking up with the grief hitting you all over again.
Searching everywhere (Google or Reddit or Instagram AGAIN), still not finding what you need.
Finding baby loss groups where people judge your choice or say, "I could never do that."
You're not broken. You just need people who truly understand.
Searching everywhere (Google or Reddit or Instagram AGAIN), still not finding what you need.
Finding baby loss groups where people judge your choice or say, "I could never do that."
You're not broken. You just need people who truly understand.
Who this pregnancy loss support membership is for:
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Questions? Just ask - we'll help you figure out if this fits for you.
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We'd love to have you join us. Kate and I are re-opening the Sanctuary together - combining our expertise to create the most comprehensive TFMR support space that exists. You're not just joining a membership - you're joining a movement to end TFMR isolation forever. |
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Yes! This sounds like the support space for me:
What others are saying:
"Sabrina's sessions and work have really helped me in that she is so good at creating and holding space for all aspects of the TFMR experience.
From personal experience, it is often very difficult to do that for ourselves and I have found it so necessary to have that help in order to tackle some of my bigger hurdles in grief and processing my loss. I really appreciate that Sabrina does this work and helps us along our own path in healing."
From personal experience, it is often very difficult to do that for ourselves and I have found it so necessary to have that help in order to tackle some of my bigger hurdles in grief and processing my loss. I really appreciate that Sabrina does this work and helps us along our own path in healing."
-Meggi
"Sabrina has been a gentle and empathetic support to me.
She's a great listener who acknowledged my past pregnancy traumas and pregnancy after loss fears with kindness and compassion.
She helped me feel as though I wasn't alone.”
She's a great listener who acknowledged my past pregnancy traumas and pregnancy after loss fears with kindness and compassion.
She helped me feel as though I wasn't alone.”
- Amanda
Choose your pricing
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MONTHLY Choosing the Monthly Membership to the Sanctuary. You receive: ✔ Monthly live sessions with both grief experts ✔Access to the Sanctuary resources ✔ PRIVATE TFMR Sanctuary Forum, (our own platform) $45 USD
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ANNUAL Membership to the Sanctuary SAVE $45 ✔ Monthly live sessions with both grief experts ✔Access to the Sanctuary resources ✔ PRIVATE TFMR Sanctuary Forum, (our own platform) ✔ONE MONTH FREE $495 USD
(Annual access - cancel anytime) |
Not sure? Join us risk-free with a 30-day money back guarantee. |
Your TFMR support team
Kate and Sabrina here, by your side.
You're not alone in this - whether you want to connect with the community or heal privately at your own pace.
We created this space so you'd have somewhere safe to land.
You're not alone in this - whether you want to connect with the community or heal privately at your own pace.
We created this space so you'd have somewhere safe to land.
How we support you within the Sanctuary:
Community support Get answers from other TFMR parents + both facilitators |
Direct access Email us anytime, we respond within 48 hours |
1:1 options Want more personal support? We offer individual sessions too |
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Meet the co-foundersMeet Your Co-Founders
Sabrina Fletcher - TFMR Bereavement Doula who went through her own TFMR in 2018. Specializes in trauma processing and emotional healing. Kate Carson - Baby Loss Coach. Specializes in somatic healing and body-based recovery after pregnancy loss. Together, we bring comprehensive support for your healing journey. |
Who this membership is for
This is for you if:
- You're feeling like you in the same grief layer with no way out
- You want TFMR-specific support without judgment
- You're ready to try new healing approaches
This membership is NOT for you if...
The Sanctuary are NOT for you if:
- You'd rather ignore your grief completely
- You judge other people's TFMR decisions
- You have zero time for healing work
“When a child dies, you bury the child in your heart.”
~ Korean Proverb
Ready to join the Sanctuary? Here's everything that is included:
For $45/month:
- Monthly live sessions with both experts
- Private community forum
- Self-paced courses & healing resources
- Cancel anytime
Your safe corner of the internet where we've got your back.
Resources for sleepless nights. Tools for hard days. Community that gets it.
FAQs
Can I stay anonymous?
Yes, you can use any name you want in the community. You can leave your Zoom video off/change your Zoom name or just watch the replays.
What if I can't attend the live sessions?
All sessions are recorded, you can watch anytime.
Can I cancel if it's not right for me?
Yes, cancel anytime. And you get a 30-day money back guarantee.
Is this just for recent losses?
No, whether your loss was weeks or years ago, you are welcome and you belong here.
Do I have to participate in the community?
Not at all. You can use all the resources privately.