Replay from Apr. 2nd
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TFMR Support Sanctuary
Still a mother. Still a parent. Always.
The Sanctuary is where parents who've made the most impossible choice ever REMEMBER who we are. |
- What: Space for healing in grief & the connections with your baby you crave as a TFMR parent
- Cost: $45/month, cancel anytime
- Support: Two expert facilitators who have walked the path through TFMR and know what actually helps
- Where: OFF social media, password protected space, live groups on encrypted video
The TFMR SUPPORT SANCTUARY
A place to remember: your parenting didn't end. It transformed. You are still a mother, still a parent, through an impossible decision.
You are still carrying your baby forward through memory, through love, through the stories you tell and the community you build. The Sanctuary exists to hold all of this.
You are still carrying your baby forward through memory, through love, through the stories you tell and the community you build. The Sanctuary exists to hold all of this.
The only pregnancy loss support
membership created SPECIFICALLY FOR
parents like you who had to make the hardest choice
What past members of our TFMR groups have to say:
"It is so powerful to connect and share our stories with other women who've experienced the same thing.
Having a sacred space to share our stories, our grief. It was so beautiful to witness others grow, heal and grieve and to see their processes reflected in mine.
Being seen and understood are crucial to our humanity, especially at times like these.
Having community is so important. Our Society is greatly lacking spaces like these.
If sharing our grief became normalized in our world, we would be living in a much more beautiful world. One that is rich on so many levels."
-Andie, TFMR mom
Having a sacred space to share our stories, our grief. It was so beautiful to witness others grow, heal and grieve and to see their processes reflected in mine.
Being seen and understood are crucial to our humanity, especially at times like these.
Having community is so important. Our Society is greatly lacking spaces like these.
If sharing our grief became normalized in our world, we would be living in a much more beautiful world. One that is rich on so many levels."
-Andie, TFMR mom
In the Sanctuary you come in not knowing if you'll survive this.
You will find you are a GOOD parent. And that good parents sometimes have to make the hardest choice love will ever ask.
You've searched everywhere for grief support that truly gets TFMR (TFMR = termination for medical reasons)
Maybe you've joined baby loss groups where people don't understand your experience...or worse, judge your choice.
You deserve support without having to defend your loving decision.
That's exactly why we created this space - just for parents like you
Because even the "best" grief spaces...kind ones...loving ones... well, even there, with the best of intentions, these spaces drop TFMR parents through the cracks.
Because we've been asked to carry BOTH. The grief AND the choice. The love AND the decision. The baby AND the shame the world keeps heaping on us.
General baby loss spaces hold the grief. The Sanctuary holds the whole impossible thing.
A place where EVERYTHING is specific to the
unique tough feelings of terminating a wanted pregnancy
“People going through loss don’t need easy answers; they need safe places to help them navigate everything they are going through."
-Jennifer Dukes Lee
The TFMR Support Sanctuary is finally a place where you can:
- Bring all your feelings safely
- Talk with people who truly understand
- Get real TFMR-specific support
- Heal without judgment
A place where you don’t have to explain yourself and your loving, heartbreaking choice...
Inside the TFMR Support Sanctuary:
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Monthly LIVE sessions with both experts |
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Live sessions with Kate Carson, baby loss coach
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Live sessions with Sabrina Fletcher, pregnancy loss doula
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About the LIVE sessions: |
LIVE SESSIONS (one with Sabrina, one with Kate) : ***1st Thursday of the month: 7pm EASTERN*** ***3rd Wednesday of the month: 11am EASTERN***
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Your PRIVATE Community Forum (our custom-built, password protected space) |
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About the Community Forum: |
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Self-paced TFMR grief courses |
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About the mini-courses: |
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100% virtual with a personal login (watch/download from any device)
What you need is to remember who you are: You are part of an ancient line of mothers who have loved through the impossible.
They loved through heartbreaking choices. They held each other, remembered babies, honored sacrifices made. These mothers are the reason we are here today.
Now we continue to hold each other. This is the Sanctuary.
Yes! I want in:
$45/month
Grieving in a society that doesn't understand:
Society tells you to "just move on" from grief.
We call B.S. on that...
The "push-it-down" and "move on" approach did NOT work for us
You're here, looking for another way:
A heart-based, human way.
Here's your permission to grieve however you need to.
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Here this looks like grieving OUR way
Healing through nature, art, ritual, and in community.
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"She was no longer wrestling with the grief, but could sit down with it as a lasting companion and make it a sharer in her thoughts.”
- George Eliot
- George Eliot
We've been where you are, and know how hard it is:
Waking up, the grief hitting you like a semi-truck, all over again.
Searching everywhere (Google or Reddit or Instagram AGAIN), still not finding what you need.
Finding baby loss groups where people judge your choice or say, "I could never do that."
You're not broken or "doing it wrong." You just need people who truly understand.
Searching everywhere (Google or Reddit or Instagram AGAIN), still not finding what you need.
Finding baby loss groups where people judge your choice or say, "I could never do that."
You're not broken or "doing it wrong." You just need people who truly understand.
Who this pregnancy loss support membership is for:
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Questions? Just ask - we'll help you figure out if this fits for you.
Sabrina
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We'd love to have you join us. Kate and I are re-opening the Sanctuary together - combining our expertise to create the most comprehensive TFMR support space that exists. You're not just joining a membership - you're joining a movement to end TFMR isolation forever. |
Kate
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Yes! This sounds like the support space for me:
What others say about working
with Sabrina & Kate:
"Sabrina's sessions and work have really helped me in that she is so good at creating and holding space for all aspects of the TFMR experience.
From personal experience, it is often very difficult to do that for ourselves and I have found it so necessary to have that help in order to tackle some of my bigger hurdles in grief and processing my loss. I really appreciate that Sabrina does this work and helps us along our own path in healing."
From personal experience, it is often very difficult to do that for ourselves and I have found it so necessary to have that help in order to tackle some of my bigger hurdles in grief and processing my loss. I really appreciate that Sabrina does this work and helps us along our own path in healing."
-Meggi
"I cannot imagine going through this experience without your impact, Kate.
I look for your comments and find comfort in them.
And I’m learning from you on how to support other mamas. Thank you.”
I look for your comments and find comfort in them.
And I’m learning from you on how to support other mamas. Thank you.”
- Lori
"Sabrina has been a gentle and empathetic support to me.
She's a great listener who acknowledged my past pregnancy traumas and pregnancy after loss fears with kindness and compassion.
She helped me feel as though I wasn't alone.”
She's a great listener who acknowledged my past pregnancy traumas and pregnancy after loss fears with kindness and compassion.
She helped me feel as though I wasn't alone.”
- Amanda
"It's so valuable to have someone who understands this pain on a personal level hold space, being able to talk about my losses with someone who really gets it.”
- Joanne
Each month you receive:
✔ Monthly live sessions with both grief experts
✔Access to the Sanctuary resources
✔ PRIVATE TFMR Sanctuary Forum, (our own, custom coded platform -seriously, Sabrina has coded it for us)
$45 USD
(Monthly access - cancel anytime)
(Monthly access - cancel anytime)
Not sure? Join us risk-free with a 30-day money back guarantee. |
Your TFMR support team
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Kate and Sabrina here, by your side.
You're not alone in this - whether you want to connect with the community or heal privately at your own pace.
We created this space so you'd have somewhere safe to land.
We've both been through TFMR, and have supported hundreds of TFMR families through the grief and heartbreak.
You're not alone in this - whether you want to connect with the community or heal privately at your own pace.
We created this space so you'd have somewhere safe to land.
We've both been through TFMR, and have supported hundreds of TFMR families through the grief and heartbreak.
How we support you within the Sanctuary:
Community support Get answers from other TFMR parents + both facilitators |
Direct access Email us anytime, we respond within 48 hours |
1:1 option upgrade available Want more personal support? We offer individual sessions too |
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Meet the co-foundersMeet Your Co-Founders Sabrina Fletcher - TFMR Bereavement Doula who went through her own TFMR in 2018. Specializes in trauma processing and emotional healing. Kate Carson - Baby Loss Coach. Specializes in somatic healing and body-based recovery after pregnancy loss. Together, we bring comprehensive support for your healing journey. |
Who this membership is for
This is for you if:
- You're feeling like you're stuck in the same grief layers, over and over, with no way out
- You want TFMR-specific support without judgment
- You're ready to try new healing approaches
This membership is NOT for you if...
The Sanctuary are NOT for you if:
- You'd rather ignore your grief completely
- You judge other people's TFMR decisions
- You have zero time for healing work
“When a child dies, you bury the child in your heart.”
~ Korean Proverb
Ready to join the Sanctuary? Here's everything that is included:
For $45/month:
- Monthly live sessions with both experts
- Private community forum
- Self-paced courses & healing resources
- Cancel anytime
FAQs
Can I stay anonymous?
Yes, you can use any name you want in the community. You can post as "anonymous." You can leave your Zoom video off/change your Zoom name or just watch the replays.
What if I can't attend the live sessions?
All sessions are recorded, you can watch anytime if you can't make the live time slots. If there is interest we can also have questions/stories submitted beforehand and we'll share them/answer them in the live sessions.
Can I cancel if it's not right for me?
Yes, cancel anytime. And you get a 30-day money back guarantee.
Is this just for recent losses?
No, whether your loss was weeks or years ago, you are welcome and you belong here.
Do I have to participate in the community?
Not at all. You can use all the resources privately.
And we actually consider reading the forum, listening to group call replays, joining with video off and listening, AS participating in the community. Being a sacred witness is a KEY part of community, community is not always loud and front and center, community can be the quiet, constant net as well.
And we actually consider reading the forum, listening to group call replays, joining with video off and listening, AS participating in the community. Being a sacred witness is a KEY part of community, community is not always loud and front and center, community can be the quiet, constant net as well.
Yes I want to join:
Join the Sanctuary for $45 USD/month - cancel anytime
Your safe corner of the internet where we've got your back.
Resources for sleepless nights. Tools for hard days.
Community to remind you:
You are not broken. You are not alone. You are not the first mother to survive the unsurvivable. You are the motherline continuing.
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I feel like I now, finally after so many years, have a community and friends who understand me, see me and see my children I have lost. -Carolina, member of one of our TFMR groups |