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Resources for after TFMR

TFMR Grief Groups
​(free peer grief support groups for after terminating a wanted pregnancy)

1. TFMR Support Circle (run by me, Sabrina, the TFMR Doula)

Join over 600+ members in our free Facebook peer support group. A safe space for TFMR families. You can apply here:
www.theTFMRdoula.com/facebookgroup
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​2. Ending a Wanted Pregnancy

This group runs a free secret Facebook group for people and their direct partners who have scheduled or already completed a termination for medical reasons. Apply here:
www.endingawantedpregnancy.com/apply-to-join-private-support-group/
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3. Terminating a Pregnancy for Medical Reasons (run by Terminations Remembered)

Another free peer support group, this closed Facebook group accepts members from poor prenatal diagnosis through termination. You can apply here (scroll down for the application form):
terminationsremembered.com/join-the-tfmr-facebook-group/


4. Pregnancy After Loss Support
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This organization runs multiple Facebook groups covering the whole spectrum of the fertility journey and loss, TTC again or not. This is the specific group for TFMR:
pregnancyafterlosssupport.org/get-support/pals-private-groups/apply-to-join-tfmr/

And here is their list of all of their groups: ​pregnancyafterlosssupport.org/get-support/pals-private-groups/



5. Babycenter - Termination for Medical Reasons board
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One of the many boards on the Babycenter forum, this is a great option if you do not use Facebook and want a more anonymous experience. You can just read the board or you can create a profile and take part as well here:
https://community.babycenter.com/groups/a6325/termination_for_medical_reasons

(There is a similar UK Babycenter and Aussie Babycenter board, but the one I am most familiar with is the U.S. one above.)



6. Reddit - TFMR Support
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Another option if you want a more anonymous experience. You can just read the board or you can create a profile and take part as well here:
https://www.reddit.com/r/tfmr_support


Free Guides and Prompts

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​here to download the self-care
​in grief after TFMR guide

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​click here to download the
journaling prompts
​for after pregnancy loss
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​click here to download the
art journaling prompts
for after pregnancy loss
Free Workshop Recordings

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​click here to watch the replay of
Self-Care for TFMR families in
Turbulent Political Times
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the replay of Cared for and Calm:
A mindfulness workshop for TFMR parents
Recommended Grief Books

My #1 Recommendation:
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Our Heartbreaking Choices
by Christie Brooks


Buy on Amazon

46 Stories about people who have had to terminate wanted pregnancies for medical reasons. This book speaks directly to the experience of TFMR.



#2:
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An Exact Replica of a Figment of My Imagination
by Elizabeth McCracken


Buy on Amazon

Not a termination, but this story of a mother's grief after stillbirth looks deeply into so many layers of the grief of an out-of-order death. Beautifully written.



#3:

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Saying Goodbye
Zoe Clark-Coates


Buy on Amazon

A guide for the first 90 days after pregnancy loss. Although the author's losses have been miscarriages, she is a ally for TFMR families and this book applies to terminations as well.

Private, live paid support options

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A virtual, intimate, safe group
​for bereaved TFMR parents
(plans starting at $111 USD/month

>>>Check next start dates and apply here<<<
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For PRIVATE 1:1 pregnancy loss doula support, in the great grief of the death of your baby due to a medically indicated termination
(plans starting at $333 USD/month

>>>Check next start dates and apply here<<<
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Our TFMR Stories 
(TFMR Pregnancy Loss Support ​Youtube channel & podcast)

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(Click anywhere on the image above or click here to head to the channel)
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    • Everything page >
      • Join Facebook support group
      • TFMR Loss Birth Plans - Free download
      • Self-Care Workshop and Healing Session - free instant access
      • Art Journaling Prompts - free download
      • Journaling Prompts for Pregnancy Loss - free download
      • Real Self-Care After TFMR - free download
      • Caring for Your Grief Through Mindfulness Workshop - instant access
      • Peace of Mind Audio Mindfulness Program
    • Virtual Loss Support >
      • Bereavement Care Package - 1:1 PRIVATE support
      • Virtual support group - Ascend: A TFMR Grief Circle
      • Schedule a call - Free Introductory Bereavement Session
    • Writings
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