Terminating a wanted pregnancy deserves the same gentle care as pregnancy/neonatal hospice; these loss birth plans will guide you in this extremely tough medical situation with reverence.

TFMR Bereavement Birth Plans

Having a loss birth plan will bring intention and honor to this difficult and impossible end-of-life transition of a loved baby, whether for baby's poor diagnosis or your own. 

These bereavement birth plans, specifically for the heartbreaking loss of ending a wanted pregnancy for health reasons (TFMR = termination for medical reasons), offer you: 

• Guidance in planning, to the best of your ability, this tragic AND special time with your baby and end of your pregnancy

• Ideas for memory making and bonding, no matter the procedure type​ ​
• "What to pack" list, for birthing person and baby

In this download packet, you will find both Google doc and PDF formats for BOTH a D&E ("surgical" termination) and labor and delivery ("medical" termination). Just place your email information in the form provided and download information will be sent to you.

Hi, I'm Sabrina, Pregnancy Loss Doula and fellow loss mom 

I lost my second baby to a termination for medical reasons (TFMR), after receiving a poor prenatal diagnosis or hydrops and cystic hygroma and other anomalies.

This was hands down the hardest thing I've ever been through. I wish the pain of losing a child on no one. I'm so very sorry that you know this pain too.

I'm so sorry you have a need for these loss birth plans and that you find yourself in this position. I know this such a scary time and I hope these birth plans can give you the support and information you are looking for. I wish you did not know this pain of a poor medical diagnosis, for you and/or your sweet baby.

Losing a baby in this way can feel oh so very lonely. I now work with parents going through the same kind of loss, as a companion in their pain. You are not alone. 

In my own loss, one thing I needed and was missing was a PLAN and knowledge around what my procedure would entail and what choices I had. And that's why I offer these free loss birth plans. Because you CAN create memories in this hello and good-bye wrapped in one. This special last time with your baby. And if just a couple ideas in the birth plans help you through this difficult time, that's huge.

Meet your Pregnancy Loss Doula
Sabrina | The TFMR Doula