Sabrina Fletcher
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The medical record might say one thing. We know the truth: TFMR (termination for medical reasons) is fiercely parenting your baby through the most impossible decision love has EVER asked of you. And it breaks your heart into a million pieces. The world may not understand, but we do. Here, your baby matters. Your motherhood/parenthood MATTERS. Your impossible decision matters. As your bereavement doula, I walk beside you as you learn to carry the love that has nowhere to go, even if others pretend it doesn't exist. Your love for your baby didn't end when their body couldn't stay. That love, that STILL PARENTING - is still real and holy and HERE. |
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I went through a TFMR myself in 2018, with my planned and wanted second baby, Clara. What I know through this: our babies don't stop mattering when their bodies can't stay. The love doesn't stop. The connection doesn't stop. Clara guides everything I do now - every call, every session, every moment I hold space for parents like us. Clara and I are still connected. Your baby is still with you too. & we are here together as parents because no one should walk this path alone. |
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