Resources for TFMR

In this free Facebook group you will:

Find the support and connection you need in a safe, confidential space (closed group, all members go through a screening process)
Have your questions answered about grief and all the emotions and layers that come with TFMR (Termination for Medical Reasons, also known as ending a wanted pregnancy)
Connect with other people who are dealing with and feeling the same thing so you can not feel so alone

If this sounds like the grief support space for you, please apply to join by using this form:

First Name*

Last Name*

Best email for group updates*

Name on Facebook (if different than above)

Your URL on Facebook (navigate to your profile page and grab the URL there)*

What was the diagnosis?*

What was the termination procedure TYPE? *

What was the date of your termination?*

Any other information about your baby or experience you would like to add?

Enter your details above to apply to join the free Facebook group,
the TFMR Support Circle

This peer and bereavement doula run Facebook group aims to
keep its members secure through this screening process.

Because after terminating a wanted pregnancy, what you need is a safe, stigma-free place
to process all the complicated layers of grief that come along with this experience.

What members of this group are saying:

"...such a lifeline in the darkest days."

"...unending support, empathy, and inspiration"

"...a safe space free of judgment and full of understanding that gave me so much comfort."

"...the only place I feel I can speak openly."

Meet your
Loss Doula

Admin and Founder of the TFMR Support Circle

Sabrina Fletcher
The TFMR Doula

I'm am so very sorry you've lost your baby. I am so sorry you have a need for a space like this. Please know your story is safe with me, and safe within the closed Facebook group. In the group we see you as the bereaved parent you are, even if other people in your life are not understanding all you are going through.

I went through a TFMR myself in early 2018 and I had to explain so much to all my therapists, my medical team, even to my own partner. It was exhausting to find the right people, but I eventually cobbled together the support I needed. Facebook groups like this were a key part to my healing.

Here with us there is no explanation needed. We see you, we hear you.

That's why I became a pregnancy loss doula. And that's why I formed this Facebook group, so you can find that connection with others who understand. People who get you.

Apply to join in the form above if this sounds like the space for you.