What the world sees

What the world sees is just the tip of the iceberg. The world sees us going to get-togethers, smiling, back at work, maybe even pregnant again after loss, laughing at jokes, carrying on and talking about our hobbies. 

Well...I'm sure you know intimately what lays beneath the surface:
😭 Crying, so much crying
🕳 Feeling adrift, a loss of purpose
💔 Utterly heartbroken
🙅‍♀️ Body shame, even loathing your body
🤫 Feeling unsafe to share your complete story
🤬 Rage
♾ And.so.much.more

After losing your baby to a medical termination, whether for your health or the baby's health, or a combination, there are so many layers to work through.

Under the surface, that iceberg of feelings and emotions just goes on and on.

💜What's under the surface for you today?💜

P.S. I am taking applications for the next round of Ascend, a grief circle specifically for bereaved TFMR people. A place where you can explore the depths of those "hidden from polite society" emotions and layers. Applications due by March 22nd.​