Your monthly package includes live WEEKLY support sessions:
Two bereavement care session for grief processing, wherever you are on your fertility journey (live over Zoom)
(Valued at $400+ USD) |
One session of distance Reiki healing,
to aid in emotional and spiritual healing (live over Zoom) (Valued at $197 USD) |
A live Tarot or Oracle card reading, to tap into guidance and universal wisdom
(Live over Zoom, can be recorded for multiple replays if you so wish) (Valued at $197 USD) |
Your monthly package also includes text and voice note support:
24/7 text and voice note support for when triggers and questions arise
(with Whatsapp or your text app of choice)
(Valued at $300 USD)
(with Whatsapp or your text app of choice)
(Valued at $300 USD)
With your full month package, you'll also receive extra helpful resources:
Lifetime access to the TFMR Support Sanctuary course Grief support videos, mindfulness in grief mini-course and art and journaling prompts to help you process grief from a place where words can't reach (Valued at $497+ USD) 
Guidance and guide for creating your healing postpartum bath ritual
(on your own timeline with chat processing pre- and post- ritual) (Valued at $59 USD) |
Grief after a medical termination of a wanted pregnancy (TFMR)
can feel so very isolating.
You don't have go through it alone.
1-on-1 support
...as your Pregnancy Loss Doula, you can count on me for:
WEEKLY live Zoom videochat support sessions per month ($600+ value)
(Two bereavement support sessions, one Reiki energy healing session, & one LIVE tarot reading session PER MONTH)
& 24/7 virtual chat ($300 value)
(Two bereavement support sessions, one Reiki energy healing session, & one LIVE tarot reading session PER MONTH)
& 24/7 virtual chat ($300 value)
- Text and voice message support over Whatsapp (send me a message ANYTIME, even in the middle of the night). I will respond within 24 hours during working hours. You can text me if you wake up from a bad dream, are leaving your doctor's office after a follow-up, if you see a triggering post...I'm here to listen.
- Emotional support through your first period, your follow-up post-partum appointments (take me along virtually over chat if needed), dealing with your milk coming in, going back to work, working through how to tell your family and friends, reaching your original due date, trying to conceive again or a pregnancy after loss, and so much more
- Help making the plans you need to grieve (finding the right professional therapy/therapist for you, finding group support, creating personal & community rituals to heal)
Full month packages (WEEKLY SESSIONS) starting at $650 USD per month
Half packages (2 SESSIONS per MONTH) starting at $333 USD per month
Half packages (2 SESSIONS per MONTH) starting at $333 USD per month
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What 1 on 1 clients are saying:
"It was a 'no-brainer' to schedule a one-on-one session with Sabrina when I saw an email reminder that she had these types of services available.
I am in the middle of a pregnancy after loss (multiple losses) PAL, and I knew she could help me with the complexities of this current time through her many modalities of support.
Before working with her I felt anxious and unsure, but after the sessions I always feel more centered and connected.
My biggest takeaway is that I was reminded of the importance of engaging spiritually and provided with some helpful guidance for doing so in ways that are meaningful to me."
I am in the middle of a pregnancy after loss (multiple losses) PAL, and I knew she could help me with the complexities of this current time through her many modalities of support.
Before working with her I felt anxious and unsure, but after the sessions I always feel more centered and connected.
My biggest takeaway is that I was reminded of the importance of engaging spiritually and provided with some helpful guidance for doing so in ways that are meaningful to me."
-Heidi
"I trust Sabrina and she has given me a safe space to cope with loss. She is always there for me especially during times of panic when trying to conceive after my TFMR (termination for medical reasons) loss.
After working with her I feel more at peace and more connected to my baby and spiritual self, especially with the help of her Reiki sessions."
-Katie
"Sabrina has been a gentle and empathetic support to me.
She's a great listener who acknowledged my past pregnancy traumas
and pregnancy after loss fears with kindness and compassion.
She helped me feel as though I wasn't alone.”
- Amanda
Meet your Loss Doula
Sabrina Fletcher The TFMR Doula |
I'm so sorry you've lost your baby. Please know your story is safe with me. I see you as the bereaved parent you are, even if not everyone else understands. And that's ok, not everyone will understand. I went through a TFMR myself in early 2018 and I had to explain so much to all my therapists, my medical team, even to my own partner. It was exhausting to find the right people, but I eventually cobbled together the support I needed. Here with me there is no explanation needed. I see you, I hear you. I'm here to help. That's why I became a pregnancy loss doula. And that's why I put together this bereavement care package, so you can give yourself the gift of having that constant companion by your side. Someone who gets you. |
"Working with Sabrina was both healing and enlightening. Her soothing and compassionate energy is unparalleled.
It was extremely helpful to have someone to send thoughts/messages to 24/7 as they came when grief and trauma triggers arose.
I’m forever grateful for her professional and caring support, and plan to work with her again should we experience a future pregnancy. Regardless of the outcome her support will be needed."
-Anne
FAQs
I already see a Therapist. Is this PsychoTherapY?
I'm so happy you already have a therapist that is working for you. That is a huge win. And no, my services are *not* psychotherapy or art therapy.
I am a Pregnancy Loss Doula, and I can step in to companion you in the spaces where therapy ends and your daily life begins. Think of it more like coaching; your therapist might give you homework to do, and together we can set the goals you need to complete that assignment. As a doula, I can also be your medical emotional support: over chat we can make sure all your questions are prepared for your medical appointments and you can debrief with me about the emotional and spiritual aspects after seeing the doctor, having a postpartum check-up, deciding whether to try and conceive (TTC) again, a pregnancy after loss and so much more.
I am a Pregnancy Loss Doula, and I can step in to companion you in the spaces where therapy ends and your daily life begins. Think of it more like coaching; your therapist might give you homework to do, and together we can set the goals you need to complete that assignment. As a doula, I can also be your medical emotional support: over chat we can make sure all your questions are prepared for your medical appointments and you can debrief with me about the emotional and spiritual aspects after seeing the doctor, having a postpartum check-up, deciding whether to try and conceive (TTC) again, a pregnancy after loss and so much more.
Do We have to use WhatsApp to Text/Talk? I don't have that App.
I find that Whatsapp has a very reliable platform, so that's why I recommend it. We can text, send images, screenshots, audio voicemail and even video through Whatsapp. And if we are both on WiFi, voice and video calls are free, so you can even take me along virtually to a triggering post-partum or even unrelated doctor's appointment.
I always recommend to my clients that they try the app and see if it works for our time together, but if it really doesn't work for you, we can switch to Facebook or Instagram messages or the messaging system we choose.
I always recommend to my clients that they try the app and see if it works for our time together, but if it really doesn't work for you, we can switch to Facebook or Instagram messages or the messaging system we choose.
I Don't know much about reiki. Will that even help me?
Reiki is a gentle yet deep energy healing tool. Reiki uses the healing power of the universe to realign and reconnect us to Source, and the healing that is already in us. For our virtual Reiki session, you can preferably be lying down or even schedule the session to happen while you are asleep (it is best you are NOT driving or operating heavy machinery) and I will send Reiki to you from the safety of our own homes, no germs.
I've been a Reiki teacher and practitioner for many years now, and I find that the sessions are so relaxing, can help ease anxiety, and help me get in touch with my big emotions. It's work on a spiritual level that will also flow over into our emotional and physical well-being. It's a gentle aid in grief, when everything has been turned upside down.
I've been a Reiki teacher and practitioner for many years now, and I find that the sessions are so relaxing, can help ease anxiety, and help me get in touch with my big emotions. It's work on a spiritual level that will also flow over into our emotional and physical well-being. It's a gentle aid in grief, when everything has been turned upside down.
MY TFMR PREGNANCY LOSS WAS MANY YEARS AGO. SHOULD I STILL APPLY?
Yes, please apply! There is no expiration date on grief. And you may find yourself in need of help because another recent loss is bringing up your grief for your baby. Or maybe you are coming up on a hard milestone or grief "anniversary." Or perhaps you were never allowed to grieve due to family or your culturaI environment. I want you to know, I am here for you. Apply and we'll chat more to see if we're a good fit.