Thank you!
Here are your 
​TFMR Bereavement Birth Plans

SCROLL DOWN TO DOWNLOAD THE PLANS

My condolences for the upcoming loss and hello and good-bye to your precious baby/babies. I wish you did not know this pain. And I'm glad you have found this page and resource, to help you plan, to the best of your ability, this tragic and special time with your baby and end of your pregnancy.
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Below you will find both Google doc and PDF formats for the following birth plans:

• BIRTH PLAN & PROCEDURE PREFERENCES FOR D&E or D&C (Surgical termination)
• ​BIRTH PLAN PREFERENCES FOR LABOR AND DELIVERY (L&D)

Loss Birth Plans

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For D&E/D&C procedure/birth
​ (also known as surgical termination):

Google doc for D&E/D&C procedure/birth plan
click here or on image above
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("File" -> "Make a copy" to make this fillable on your own Google drive or "File" -> "Download" -> "Microsoft word .docx" to open in Word)
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PDF for D&E/D&C procedure/birth plan
click here or on image above

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For L&D induced birth
​(also known as medical termination):

Google doc for L&D induced birth
click here or on image above

​("File" -> "Make a copy" to make this fillable on your own Google drive or "File" -> "Download" -> "Microsoft word .docx" to open in Word)
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PDF for L&D induced birth
click here or on image above

LOOKING OVER THE PLANS:
Take your time as you look over the plans. Have water and tissues nearby.
Take a break and come back to the plans if you need to.

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& Remember that you have a complimentary introduction session for doula support, to help you go over your birth plan.

All partners and in-person doula or support person are welcome to join in this call.

SCHEDULE BELOW:

​You are not alone 

​More helpful information:

​DECIDING BETWEEN D&E AND LABOR & DELIVERY
You may also find this episode of Our TFMR Stories helpful if you are still deciding between and able to choose between a D&E procedure and labor and delivery. This is an episode featuring Sabrina Fletcher, the TFMR Doula, and Sherokee Ilse, Baby Loss Family Advisor program creator and author. We talk about the "pros and cons" of surgical (D&E) and medical (labor and delivery) procedures.

& know that whichever type of birth/procedure you have, you are a GOOD parent.  This episode can give you some ideas for memory making, no matter what the procedure type:

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FACEBOOK SUPPORT GROUP
& If you already have your date scheduled, you are eligible to join our TFMR Support Circle on Facebook for more peer support. You can apply here (all partners and surrogates welcome, although we ask that each person submit an individual application)