The TFMR Doula exists because termination for medical reasons happen. This type of pregnancy loss happen way more than we think they do (up to THREE times more often than stillbirth and infant death COMBINED). If this has happened to you, I'm so sorry you've lost your baby. Please know your story is safe with me. I see you as the bereaved parent you are, even if not everyone else understands.
And that's ok, not everyone will understand. My name is Sabrina Fletcher and I went through a TFMR myself in early 2018. I had to explain so much to all my therapists, my medical team, even to my own partner. It was exhausting to find the right people, but I eventually cobbled together the support I needed.
That's why I made "The TFMR Doula" services, a place where there is no explanation needed. I see you, I hear you. I'm here to help.
I became a pregnancy loss doula so you can give yourself the gift of having that constant companion by your side. Someone who gets you.
And that's ok, not everyone will understand. My name is Sabrina Fletcher and I went through a TFMR myself in early 2018. I had to explain so much to all my therapists, my medical team, even to my own partner. It was exhausting to find the right people, but I eventually cobbled together the support I needed.
That's why I made "The TFMR Doula" services, a place where there is no explanation needed. I see you, I hear you. I'm here to help.
I became a pregnancy loss doula so you can give yourself the gift of having that constant companion by your side. Someone who gets you.
Some facts about me:
- My oldest daughter was 4 years old when we lost our second baby to TFMR
- I had just married my partner when we got pregnant with our second; we've been together since 2011 and married since 2017
- I went on to have a healthy pregnancy after my TFMR
- I really love driving alone and blasting pop & dance music in my car
- I can't handle cold weather ... that's why I ended up in Mexico!
- I love the color purple, maybe one day I'll dye my hair that color
- I have a very universal, earth and cycles-based spirituality and respect all religions and beliefs
- My ideal Saturday night would be salsa dancing with my husband or popcorn and a movie at home
- I like to do new and full moon rituals with candles, tarot cards and journaling
- My favorite coffee is homemade in my French press with almond milk creamer
- I really love amethyst crystals
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Looking to connect and get support?
Some of my most popular free resources include the Real Self-Care in the Grief of TFMR guide (click the link to download it yourself) and our Facebook group - apply here to join over 700+ members to get support.
And if you'd like to talk to me to see if 1:1 support or joining an upcoming grief circle would be the right space for you, you can schedule a call with me here. You can also get on a call with me if you've just had a diagnosis and are looking to discuss TFMR and/or get support through the termination process.
And if you'd like to talk to me to see if 1:1 support or joining an upcoming grief circle would be the right space for you, you can schedule a call with me here. You can also get on a call with me if you've just had a diagnosis and are looking to discuss TFMR and/or get support through the termination process.